A Proposal for Change: Addressing the Silence with Action

At the heart of the January 11 Buncombe County Board of Education meeting were the earnest voices of our community, laying bare the multifaceted challenges facing our educational system. Yet, amidst these calls for attention and action, a pattern of response—or lack thereof—emerged, particularly highlighted by the Board’s handling of grave concerns raised by citizens like Bill Robinson regarding student suicides attributed to bullying.

Sara Disher Ratliff’s spotlight on the issue of latchkey kids underscored a broader theme of vulnerability among our students, emphasizing the need for the school system to adopt proactive communication strategies. This plea for consideration, aimed at mitigating the unintended consequences of weather-related school closures, is a testament to the community’s desire for a responsive and caring educational framework.

Bill Robinson has attempted at multiple times to draw the Board’s attention to the tragic suicides in our district and the role of “suicide bullies”. His attempts have been met with a response that seemed to echo the more significant issue at hand: an institutional hesitance to engage deeply with uncomfortable truths. The cursory “thank you” offered in response to Robinson’s pleas highlights a disconnect between the urgency of community concerns and the Board’s engagement with these issues.

In light of this, we propose a series of amendments to Policy 4329/7311, aimed not only at addressing the specific issue of bullying and its dire consequences but also at catalyzing a shift in how the Board interacts with the concerns of its constituents. These amendments, conceived in response to the Board’s reticence, seek to introduce:

  • Explicit language that identifies and prohibits bullying behaviors linked to encouraging suicide or self-harm.
  • Mandatory suicide prevention training for all staff focused on recognizing warning signs and effectively responding to suspected cases of suicidal
    ideation.
  • A requirement for comprehensive, evidence-based suicide prevention education for students, fostering an environment of support and awareness.
  • Procedures for the swift investigation and intervention in cases where bullying is suspected of contributing to suicidal thoughts, ensuring these situations receive the urgent attention they demand.
  • The provision of counseling and support services for victims of bullying and their families, aiding in the recovery process.
  • Clear consequences for those found engaging in bullying related to suicide and self-harm, establishing a deterrent for such behaviors.
  • The creation of an anonymous reporting system for bullying, removing barriers to reporting and facilitating early intervention.
  • The establishment of a community task force dedicated to regularly reviewing policies and procedures concerning bullying and suicide, ensuring they remain practical and reflective of best practices.

These proposals are not just a response to the challenges Mr. Robinson and others highlighted.  It represents a call to action—a plea for the Board to move beyond

the formalities of acknowledgment and towards adopting tangible, impactful measures that address the critical issues at stake.

As we approach the next Board meeting on February 8, let this proposal serve as a foundation for a renewed dialogue between the Board and the community it serves. It is time for the silence and cursory acknowledgments to give way to substantive action and meaningful change. In doing so, we affirm our collective commitment to creating a safe, supportive, and responsive educational environment for all our students.